The Weird Things People Do in Shared Spaces and Don’t Even Notice

 In this lighthearted and relatable episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, Simone and Olivia dive into the funny, cringe-worthy, and downright confusing things people do—from airplane etiquette and body odor to farting, food smells, and public quirks. They laugh through real-life examples involving partners, strangers on planes, and unforgettable club moments (silent but deadly included).

The conversation explores the unspoken rules of being around others—like not bringing smelly food on flights, watching your scents in tight spaces, and knowing when to acknowledge a fart versus pretending it wasn’t you. They also get into personal habits, from not wearing socks in shoes to refusing to repark a crooked car, leaving cabinets open, and stealing hotel slippers for long flights.

Beneath the humor, there’s a deeper message: everyone has quirks, we’re all influenced by the people around us, and the things that make us “weird” are often the mosaic pieces that shape who we are. Olivia reflects on how our behaviors come from years of influence, and Simone reminds us that confidence doesn’t mean being perfect—it means being comfortable with who you are (as long as your feet stay in your shoes on a plane).

The episode wraps with a mindset reset about being kind to yourself, the idea of a “no being mean to yourself zone,” and a reminder that believing in your worth is an everyday practice—plus a quick mention of Simone’s upcoming book and bonuses.

Actionable Takeaways

  • Be considerate in shared spaces (planes, elevators, lines).
  • Use humor to defuse awkward moments.
  • Notice which influences shaped your habits.
  • Embrace your quirks—without making others uncomfortable.
  • Practice self-kindness: no negative self-talk zones!
  • Confidence = authenticity + awareness.

📖 Chapters


00:00 – Cold Open: “Why do people do that?” (bathroom etiquette)
02:30 – Elevator Etiquette: buttons, exits, and small talk
05:30 – Airplane Habits 1: standing, clapping, crosswalk “button-mashing”
08:30 – Seats & Space: armrests, manspreading, sandals/feet
10:45 – Sunglasses & Airports: boarding zones and baggage-claim crowding
14:30 – Before Phones: smoking sections & bassinets then vs. now
19:45 – Hard Truths Kindly: deodorant, hygiene, and shaving norms
22:45 – Should You Say Something? Boundaries with friends & strangers
25:30 – Food & Smells in Tight Spaces: be scent-smart on flights
27:05 – Our Weirdest Habits: sockless sneakers & sweat-ring Converse
29:05 – Shoes Off on Flights? Bring socks—plus the hotel slippers hack
30:30 – Social Norms vs. Being Yourself; the “mosaic” idea
30:55 – Book Preorder & Sign-Off

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Simone Knego is an international speaker, award-winning author and two-time TEDx Speaker. Her work has been featured on ABC, NBC, and CBS and in Entrepreneur Magazine and Yahoo News. Her literary contributions have been honored by the National Indie Excellence Award and the NYC Big Book Award. Simone has not only summited Mt. Kilimanjaro, but she is also the heart of a bustling household with six children, three dogs, and one husband of 31 years. As the creator of the REAL Method, Simone continues to inspire and impact teams, fostering growth, and promoting self-discovery. 

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