Yes! You Really Are Making a Difference
Have you ever had one of those days when you wonder, “Am I really making a difference?” You’re working hard, pouring your heart into something, but doubt creeps in. Maybe it’s your job, your hobby, your family, or just daily acts of kindness. Sometimes you may feel like you’re throwing pebbles into a vast ocean, […]
32 Years Together: The Real Secret to a Lasting Marriage
This month marks 32 years of marriage between my husband and me. Wow, just saying that out loud feels surreal. I often get asked by friends, family, even strangers, “What’s the secret? How did you do it?” The truth is, there’s no magic formula or perfect recipe. If I could distill it down to one […]
Personal Growth Has No Finish Line
My choice to become a speaker has taught me a lot about personal growth. I’ve given many speeches over the years. Each time I step onto a stage, I carry with me the lessons I’ve learned from past experiences. Yet when I step off that stage, there’s never been a moment when I think, “That’s […]
Be the Person Who Steps In: Why Helping Others Matters
Helping others isn’t just a nice thing to do—it’s the right thing to do as we strive to be the good in the world. A few days ago, I was flying back from an amazing writing retreat. As I got on the plane with my heavy carry-on bag, I attempted to put my bag in […]
Stop Just-ifying Your Life! Be Proud of Who You Are
In a world of so many different voices and opinions, it’s not always easy to simply be proud of who you are. Because of this, you may find yourself using the word “just” to describe yourself. For example: “I am just a stay-at-home mom.” “I am just a secretary.” “I am just a doctor’s wife.” […]
Do It Anyway: Why Facing Your Fear Is Worth It
Facing your fear can be a scary thing—but it can also be empowering. This week I did something that scared me. I was at an event where they invited people on stage to share a new story they were working on. When I heard that invitation, part of me thought, “Just sit this one out.” […]
My Lesson on Patience from a Freshly Paved Street
Let’s talk about patience. Have you ever had one of those days when something small throws off your whole schedule? Well, that happened to me this week. The city decided to repave my street, and they sent a notice saying we could expect delays. But not just a quick two-minute stop—we’re talking 15 to 30 […]
The Power of Self-Care in Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
Have you ever struggled with imposter syndrome? Deep down, do you feel like you’re fooling everyone into thinking you’re more capable than you really are? Imposter Syndrome Is Real I’ve seen some really incredible people struggle with imposter syndrome—including my own daughter. Earlier this week, Olivia was really struggling. She felt like she didn’t belong […]
Transformation: Moving from “I Can’t” to Unshakeable Confidence
Every journey of transformation begins with a single, honest look at ourselves. For many of us, that journey starts in a place of self-doubt, where the words “I can’t” regularly and loudly echo in our minds. But what if we could break free from that limitation? What if we could transform our lives by changing […]
The Art of Managing Pressure
“Pressure makes diamonds.” That’s what they say. But more often than not, when pressure comes from the wrong place—when it’s unaligned, unrelenting, and unaddressed—it doesn’t make diamonds. It creates dysfunction. This kind of pressure feels like an endless uphill climb, no matter how hard you push. It makes you keep trying to force something to […]