In this empowering episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, hosts Simone and Olivia Knego continue their heartfelt conversation with Dr. Stephanie Duguid. Together, they explore how confidence is affected by the people we surround ourselves with, the thoughts we allow in our minds, and even the clutter in our homes.
From recognizing toxic friendships to reframing negative self-talk, Dr. Stephanie shares actionable advice and mindset tools to help you create a more confident, joy-filled life. The trio also touches on parenting, organization hacks, and how real life—barking dogs and messy desks included—can be the backdrop for building unshakable confidence.
This episode is a relatable and uplifting reminder that growth starts with letting go—of toxic relationships, limiting beliefs, and even that pair of jeans you swore you’d wear again someday.
Actionable Takeaways
✅ Take a moment to notice how you feel after spending time with someone—your energy can be a powerful indicator of whether a relationship is nourishing or draining. In many cases, that emotional response speaks louder than words, revealing whether you’re in a healthy or toxic dynamic
✅ Friendships should evolve and serve both people. It’s okay to move on when they no longer align with who you are.
✅ Reframe negative thoughts by shifting your self-talk. Instead of “I hate my job,” try “My job supports me while I explore what’s next.” This shift away from negativity can empower you.
✅One helpful strategy is Simone’s ‘Control-Alt-Delete’ mindset method. First, evaluate your thoughts. Then, shift your outlook. Finally, let go of anything that no longer serves you. This simple yet powerful approach can help you reset your mindset and move forward with clarity.
✅ Try small organization hacks like the backward hanger trick or designated mail zones to reduce clutter and stress.
Chapters
00:00 – Welcome Back and Friendship Evolution
03:20 – Toxic Relationships and Their Impact on Confidence
10:45 – Energy Check: Who Lifts You Up?
15:00 – Reframing Self-Talk and the “Control-Alt-Delete” Mindset
22:10 – Simone’s Take on Parenting, Priorities, and the Power of Language
29:00 – Organization Hacks, Anxiety Triggers, and Getting It All Done
37:00 – Final Thoughts on Authenticity and Showing Up Imperfectly
About Dr. Stephanie Duguid
Dr. Stephanie Duguid is a speaker, educational leader, and founder of Do Good Leadership—a community dedicated to empowering women to lead with purpose and confidence. With decades of experience in education and leadership development, she brings deep insight into the power of mindset. Her passion lies in helping women reframe their thinking, embrace their worth, and step fully into who they are. By guiding them to overcome negativity, she helps unlock their true potential.
Connect with Dr. Stephanie Duguid:
Website:www.drstephanieduguid.com
Facebook: Do Good Leadership
Instagram: drstephanieduguid
LinkedIn: Stephanie Duguid
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