Is Pressure a Privilege?

In this episode, Simone and Olivia explore the topic of pressure—the good, the bad, and the overwhelming. They discuss the common pressures of school, work, and societal expectations, as well as the internal pressures we impose on ourselves. Inspired by Billie Jean King’s famous quote, “Pressure is a privilege,” they reflect on how certain pressures can motivate us while others can become too much to handle.  

Throughout their conversation, they share personal stories of handling pressure in law school, career, and daily life, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, self-respect, and managing expectations. Olivia also sheds light on the pressures faced by young professionals, and Simone dives into how understanding pressure can lead to greater self-awareness and resilience.  


Actionable Takeaways:

1. Pressure Can Be Motivating—

   A certain level of pressure helps us perform and grow, but too much can lead to burnout.  

2. Pressure is a Privilege—In Some Situations.  

   Being in a position where you feel pressure can be a sign of growth and opportunity.  

3. Learn to Differentiate Between External and Internal Pressure.

   Recognizing where pressure comes from can help in managing stress effectively.  

4. Suppressing Pressure Can Lead to Anxiety and Burnout. 

   Ignoring stress or pushing through without proper self-care can cause emotional exhaustion.  

5. You Don’t Have to Carry Other People’s Pressure.  

   Setting boundaries is crucial to avoid taking on responsibilities that aren’t yours.  

6. It’s Okay to Say No Without Guilt.  

   Prioritizing yourself doesn’t mean you’re letting others down.  


Chapters:   

00:08 – What is Pressure? The Good vs. The Bad  

01:17 – The Pressures of Law School & Adulting  

01:43 – “Pressure is a Privilege” – What Does It Really Mean?  

02:50 – The Origin of the Quote from Billie Jean King  

03:35 – When Pressure Becomes Too Much to Handle  

04:55 – Workplace Pressure and Taking on Too Many Responsibilities  

05:25 – How Pressure Can Be a Motivator (But Also a Burden)  

06:41 – Self-Respect & Setting Boundaries  

07:15 – The Impact of External Expectations  

09:23 – Pressure Cookers & Real-Life Metaphors  

10:08 – How External Stress Can Become Internalized   

12:37 – Why It’s Important to Surround Yourself with Diverse Perspectives  

14:56 – Learning to Say No & Letting Go of Guilt  

15:23 – Final Thoughts: What’s Good Pressure vs. Bad Pressure?  


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Simone Knego is an international speaker, award-winning author and two-time TEDx Speaker. Her work has been featured on ABC, NBC, and CBS and in Entrepreneur Magazine and Yahoo News. Her literary contributions have been honored by the National Indie Excellence Award and the NYC Big Book Award. Simone has not only summited Mt. Kilimanjaro, but she is also the heart of a bustling household with six children, three dogs, and one husband of 31 years. As the creator of the REAL Method, Simone continues to inspire and impact teams, fostering growth, and promoting self-discovery. 

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