In this heartfelt (and hilarious) mother-daughter chat, Simone and Olivia Knego dive into the beautiful chaos of modern weddings—from guest lists and open bars to prenups and wardrobe do’s and don’ts. As Simone prepares to watch her son get married, the two share candid reflections on what it means to parent through big transitions and, more importantly, how to let go with confidence.
Changing Traditions, Changing Expectations
First, they unpack how weddings have evolved over the years. From smaller ceremonies to extravagant events, Simone and Olivia talk about why today’s couples are ditching outdated traditions in favor of choices that actually reflect who they are.
They agree: personal choice matters more than ever, and honoring that is one of the best gifts a parent can give.
Parenting Through Milestones
Next, they explore what it really feels like to parent through big moments—like a child getting married. Simone opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of letting go and embracing a new chapter as a mom. Olivia brings her signature humor and honesty, reminding us that even the most joyful milestones can come with unexpected feelings.
Together, they reflect on the importance of showing up with support, not control—and why letting your child lead is an act of love.
Honest Conversations About Modern Weddings
Then, the duo doesn’t shy away from the big topics. They talk openly about cash funds, prenups, the reality of wedding budgets, and even the sometimes awkward family dynamics that pop up when everyone’s invited.
Their message is clear: weddings are meant to be a celebration, not a performance. And yes—there will be opinions, but not every one of them needs to be followed.
Real Talk, Real Laughs
Throughout the conversation, expect unfiltered wisdom, a few fashion faux pas, and plenty of relatable moments that will have you laughing out loud. Whether you’re a bride, a parent, or just love a good wedding debate, this episode offers both insight and entertainment.
Actionable Takeaways
- If you have to think twice about your wedding guest outfit, don’t wear it—especially if it’s white.
- Don’t underestimate the stress (and cost) of big weddings—sometimes intimacy wins.
- Open bars are great, but plan responsibly (hello, Uber!).
- A wedding is a celebration—not a family reunion or performance.
- Cash funds and prenups aren’t taboo; they’re modern, smart choices.
- Let your kids own their wedding. Your job is to show up with love and support.
- Stop underestimating yourself. You are more capable than you think.
Chapters
00:00 – The “White Dress” Debate: What’s Too Much as a Guest?
06:50 – Should Parents Have a Say in the Guest List?
11:55 – Tacky or Trendy? Cash Gifts & Registries
16:25 – Prenups: Smart or Cynical?
19:45 – Judging “Cheap” Weddings & Creative Budgeting
22:00 – Is It Worth Spending 30K+ on One Day?
24:40 – Letting the Couple Plan Their Own Wedding
28:30 – Bonus Advice: Stop Underestimating Yourself
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