Three Generations, Same Fight: AI Bias, Women’s Confidence, and a Seat at the Table

What happens when the AI tools we rely on start echoing the same biases women have been pushing against for generations? In this episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, Simone and Olivia Knego unpack a John Hopkins’ study showing that prompts written in language patterns associated with women produced less formal, less sophisticated writing.

They talk about hedging, saying please and thank you to AI, and why fixing the bias should be the responsibility of AI developers. From women filling law and medical school classrooms while holding only 19% of CEO roles, to celebrating women for their accomplishments beyond being “the first,” this conversation is a reminder that your voice and your confidence belong to you.

✅ Actionable Takeaways

  • Notice the hedges and qualifiers you use in your prompts, emails, and conversations.
  • Review and edit everything AI writes for you before you send it.
  • Keep your own word choices and use AI as a tool to support your thinking.
  • Adjust your AI settings so you get direct, honest feedback.
  • Celebrate women for what they accomplish, beyond being “the first female.”
  • Remember you have the power over how you show up and communicate.

📖 Chapters


00:00 – The John Hopkins’ Study on AI and Women
02:14 – Hedging, Qualifiers, and How Women Communicate
03:08 – Collaborative Language and Saying Please to AI
04:59 – Do We Teach Compassion Differently to Girls and Boys?
07:27 – Breaking the Bias Cycle
08:28 – Tone, Confidence, and the Workplace
10:08 – Using AI Without Losing Your Voice
12:55 – Beyond “The First Female”
14:39 – Three Generations, Same Fight
16:01 – Confidence Tip: You Have the Power

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Meet Simone Knego

Simone Knego is an international speaker, award-winning author and two-time TEDx Speaker. Her work has been featured on ABC, NBC, and CBS and in Entrepreneur Magazine and Yahoo News. Her literary contributions have been honored by the National Indie Excellence Award and the NYC Big Book Award. Simone has not only summited Mt. Kilimanjaro, but she is also the heart of a bustling household with six children, three dogs, and one husband of 31 years. As the creator of the REAL Method, Simone continues to inspire and impact teams, fostering growth, and promoting self-discovery. 

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